(Lexie) Grief may be a thing we all have in common, but it looks different on everyone. (Mark) It isn’t just death we have to grief - its life, its loss, its change. (Alex) And when we wonder why it has to suck so much sometimes, has to hurt so bad, the thing we have to remember that it can turn on a dime. (Izzy) That’s how you stay alive. When it hurts so much and you can’t breathe - that’s how you survive. (Derek) I remember that one day, somehow, impossibly, you won’t feel this way. It won’t hurt this much. (Miranda) Grief comes in its own time for everyone, in its own way. (Owen) So the best we can do…best anyone can do, is try for honesty. (Meredith) The really crappy thing, the very worst part of grief is that you can’t control it. (Arizona) The best we can do is to let ourselves feel it when it comes. (Callie) and let it go when we can. (Meredith) The very worst part is that the moment you think that you’re past it, it starts all over again. (Christina) And always, every time - it takes your breath away.